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Equipping Men In Ten Episodes

Ten-minute, laser-focused teaching by Jim Ramos to help you become your best version of a man.
Guardrail #3: Staying Emotionally Connected - Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage - EP 972
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Feb. 24, 2026

Guardrail #3: Staying Emotionally Connected - Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage - EP 972

Are you emotionally connected to your wife — or slowly drifting? Are you controlling the temperature of your marriage — or reacting to it? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with friend Chris Clay for an extremely practical conversation about building guardrails that protect both your character and your marriage. Drawing from Jim’s upcoming book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage , they unpack real-life stories and wisdom from decades o...
4 Rules for Treating Kids How Jesus Did: The Blind Spot in How Adults View Children - Equipping Men in Ten EP 960
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Jan. 27, 2026

4 Rules for Treating Kids How Jesus Did: The Blind Spot in How Adults View Children - Equipping Men in Ten EP 960

How should a man respond when a child walks into the room? Are you intentional—or distracted—in moments that could shape a life forever? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos challenges men to rethink how they engage with children—from toddlers to teenagers. Looking at how Jesus welcomed, valued, and blessed children, Jim unpacks why every interaction matters and how one moment of intentionality can create lifelong impact. You'll learn why children should be treated as whole people, not...
5 Surprising Lessons Pastors Should Learn from Normal Guys - Equipping Men in Ten EP 954
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Jan. 13, 2026

5 Surprising Lessons Pastors Should Learn from Normal Guys - Equipping Men in Ten EP 954

Are paid pastors actually more spiritually mature than the men in the pews? Why do so many leaders burn out while everyday laymen quietly endure? What if the men who don’t get paid for ministry are often the ones doing it best? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos looks back to his late 20s and early 30s in ministry and exposes a pattern he couldn’t ignore. This episode isn’t about tearing down pastors—it’s about learning from the faith, grit, and longevity of everyday men who quietly ...
10 Ways to Keep Christ the Center of Your Christmas - Equipping Men in Ten EP 944
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Dec. 16, 2025

10 Ways to Keep Christ the Center of Your Christmas - Equipping Men in Ten EP 944

Are you drifting through Christmas on autopilot? Is your family surrounded by lights, gifts, and noise—but missing the point? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos delivers 10 simple, actionable ways Christian men can keep Jesus at the center of Christmas. You'll get practical leadership you can implement immediately. You'll walk away with simple ways men can lead without adding stress or pressure and practical tools to refocus your home on Jesus amid the chaos. Check out the podcasts m...
Thanks-Giving Training: 8 Ways to Lead Your Family to Thankfulness This Season - Equipping Men in Ten EP 936
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Nov. 24, 2025

Thanks-Giving Training: 8 Ways to Lead Your Family to Thankfulness This Season - Equipping Men in Ten EP 936

Are you leading your family toward gratitude—or letting entitlement sneak in unnoticed? What if a few simple, intentional steps could shift the entire atmosphere in your home this Thanksgiving? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos shares eight easy, meaningful ways to cultivate gratitude in your family during the Thanksgiving season. Whether you’re navigating the stress bubble of life or wanting to build lasting spiritual habits, these simple practices will help you lead your family wi...
Getting Back to Intimacy in Your Marriage (5 Proven Steps) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 918
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Oct. 14, 2025

Getting Back to Intimacy in Your Marriage (5 Proven Steps) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 918

Has your relationship hit a rough patch? How do you rebuild intimacy after conflict, hurt, or distance in your marriage? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five practical steps to reconnect with your wife after a breakdown in your relationship. Drawing insights from Dr. Carol Tanksley’s book 'Sex pectations' , Jim shares biblical wisdom and honesty about what it takes to rebuild trust, reopen hearts, and restore closeness in your marriage. You’ll walk away with ...
7 Sex Lies That Are Destroying Your Marriage (vs. Biblical Truth) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 912
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Sept. 30, 2025

7 Sex Lies That Are Destroying Your Marriage (vs. Biblical Truth) - Equipping Men in Ten EP 912

Have you been lied to about sex in marriage? Are those lies quietly sabotaging your relationship with your wife—or your future marriage? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos tackles seven common lies Christian men believe about sex and marriage and replaces them with biblical truth. Drawing from Dr. Carol Tanksley’s book Sexpectations , Jim exposes the myths that weaken marriages. You’ll walk away with a truth that shatters cultural lies about sex and intimacy and A clear...
5 Questions Every Man Must Ask Before Greatness: What It Really Takes to Do Great Things - Equipping Men in Ten EP 906
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Sept. 16, 2025

5 Questions Every Man Must Ask Before Greatness: What It Really Takes to Do Great Things - Equipping Men in Ten EP 906

What does it really mean to live a great life? How can men pursue significance without chasing ego or shortcuts? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos explores five key questions every man should ask if he wants to do something lasting for God. If you’re ready to think differently, lead with courage, and pursue the kind of legacy that honors God, this episode will encourage and challenge you. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab , a Christian-owned fitness app...
Stop Procrastinating NOW (5 Quick Tips That Work): Why You Procrastinate and How to Stop - Equipping Men in Ten EP 903
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Sept. 9, 2025

Stop Procrastinating NOW (5 Quick Tips That Work): Why You Procrastinate and How to Stop - Equipping Men in Ten EP 903

Are you putting off the life God has called you to live? Are you letting fear, laziness, or comfort keep you stuck on the sidelines? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos goes straight after the silent killer of men’s dreams—procrastination. You’ll discover the real reasons men delay action and practical steps to crush excuses and start living with courage, discipline, and impact. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab , a Christian-owned fitness app. Get 6 week...
Charging Hell with a Squirt Gun: When a Man Gets It PT 2 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 888
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Aug. 5, 2025

Charging Hell with a Squirt Gun: When a Man Gets It PT 2 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 888

Who’s standing beside you when life hits hard? Are you charging into battle alone—and losing because of it? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the undeniable truth that every man needs a brotherhood. Drawing from Acts 2 and the story of Peter, Jim shows how even the boldest men fall when they isolate—but thrive when surrounded by others. If you're tired of fighting solo and ready to become the man God designed you to be, it’s time to lock arms and step into ...
But What About Women?: When a Man Gets It PT 1 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 885
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July 29, 2025

But What About Women?: When a Man Gets It PT 1 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 885

What happens to the church, a family, or a nation when men go passive? Are we asking too much of our strong women—or are men asking too little of themselves? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos kicks off a four-part series ‘When a Man Gets it”. With biblical clarity and truth, you’ll see why men are the backbone of the family, the church, and society—and what happens when that backbone fails. Being born male is biology. Becoming a man is a choice. This episode exposes th...
4 Questions Your Wife Needs You to Answer (But Won't Ask) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 879
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July 15, 2025

4 Questions Your Wife Needs You to Answer (But Won't Ask) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 879

Are you giving your wife what she truly needs—or just going through the motions? Do you know the four unspoken questions every woman is asking her man? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lays out what your wife is silently—but desperately—waiting for you to answer. Learn the four core questions your wife is asking that will challenge your excuses, sharpen your perspective, and call you into the kind of manhood your marriage needs. Check out the resources listed in this ...
Escape the Marriage Death Spiral: The Choice that has Saved Marriages Since Adam and Eve – Equipping Men in Ten EP 873
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July 1, 2025

Escape the Marriage Death Spiral: The Choice that has Saved Marriages Since Adam and Eve – Equipping Men in Ten EP 873

Are you stuck in a marriage that feels like a battleground? Tired of the nagging, the silence, the tension that never seems to end? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks the “Crazy Cycle” that’s sabotaging your marriage—and what it really means to be Jesus in the fight. Discover why your wife nags, why you shut down, and how love, respect, and biblical manhood can break the cycle once and for all. If you’re ready to stop reacting and start leading like Jesus, this ...
Ready to Lead Men? 7 Steps to Launch Your Men's Group – Equipping Men in Ten EP 870
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June 24, 2025

Ready to Lead Men? 7 Steps to Launch Your Men's Group – Equipping Men in Ten EP 870

Are you tired of waiting for someone else to lead the men in your church? Do you have what it takes to rally a brotherhood and charge into battle for their souls? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos shares a 7-step battle plan to launch a men’s group that transforms lives. Whether you've failed before or you're starting from scratch, this is your no-excuses blueprint. From recruiting your co-captain to commissioning your team, you’ll get raw truth and practical wisdom to...
Dad Bod to God Bod: 6 Rules + 7 Steps – Equipping Men in Ten EP 864
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June 10, 2025

Dad Bod to God Bod: 6 Rules + 7 Steps – Equipping Men in Ten EP 864

The “dad bod” is just another lie the world sold you. The Bible instructs us to treat our bodies as a living temple — but for many of us, it's a ticking time bomb. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses why the dad bod is not biblical, not healthy, and not sustainable if you want to lead well, live long, and finish strong. Men, reject the soft lies of comfort culture, embrace discipline, and steward your bodies with purpose. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH F...
The Dangerous Men ‘Coaching’ Christian Men Online: Who Should You Follow? – Equipping Men in Ten EP 861
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June 3, 2025

The Dangerous Men ‘Coaching’ Christian Men Online: Who Should You Follow? – Equipping Men in Ten EP 861

Are you blindly following the wrong leaders? Could you be letting unqualified voices shape your soul? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos exposes the trend of self-proclaimed “coaches” flooding the internet with no real accountability or biblical backbone. Too many men are allowing themselves to be discipled by leaders who wouldn’t last five minutes under the biblical qualifications of 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1 (' Dialed In '). If you want to be a man who leads with streng...
Leaving SOFT Christianity Behind: 4 Ways Modern Christian Men Are Dangerously Soft – Equipping Men in Ten EP 858
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May 27, 2025

Leaving SOFT Christianity Behind: 4 Ways Modern Christian Men Are Dangerously Soft – Equipping Men in Ten EP 858

Men, are you man enough to face your weaknesses? It takes real courage to confront your weaknesses head-on. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos pulls no punches as he challenges men to confront the areas where they fall short. Drawing from his bestselling book Strong Men Dangerous Times , this episode will push you to stop hiding from your struggles. Men, let's seek wholeness—mind, body, and spirit—and strive towards becoming solid and complete. Pick up Strong Men Danger...
I Found the Proverbs 31 for Men! Unpacking 9 Marks of a Man from Job 29 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 846
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April 29, 2025

I Found the Proverbs 31 for Men! Unpacking 9 Marks of a Man from Job 29 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 846

There’s a blueprint in the Bible for what it means to be a Godly man—have you seen it? That’s right, the Bible doesn't just tell men to lead—it shows us how! In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses what he calls the Proverbs 31 for men, drawn straight from Job Chapter 29. This episode is a call to action for men who want to walk with purpose, lead with conviction, and reflect Christ in every part of their lives. This message was inspired by 'Missing from Action: A ...
Stop Living Wounded: 7 Stages God Uses to Heal Men – Equipping Men in Ten EP 840
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April 15, 2025

Stop Living Wounded: 7 Stages God Uses to Heal Men – Equipping Men in Ten EP 840

Many men confuse being “strong” with being numb. We hurt others by staying broken—and are you ready to truly heal? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses the 7 stages of true healing. We challenge you to own your story, rise from your pain, and pass down hard-earned wisdom through healing to the next generation. For more on this check out Patrick Morley's book 'From Broken Boy to Mended Man: A Positive Plan to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Break the Cycle' Check ...
My Next Book According to Chat GPT – Equipping Men in Ten EP 831
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March 25, 2025

My Next Book According to Chat GPT – Equipping Men in Ten EP 831

What if we let ChatGPT write a book using Jim's past work? Would it align with the principles of Men in the Arena? In this week’s engaging 10-minute episode, Jim dives into ChatGPT’s take on what "it" thinks he would write his next book, “Guardrails”, about. Tune in to see how AI interprets Jim’s ideas and the core principles of his work. Discover the books that inspired this unique AI version of “Guardrails”. Strong Men Dangerous Times: Five Essentials Every Man Must Possess to Change His World...
5 Techniques Strong Men Master for Healing That ‘Males’ Avoid – Equipping Men in Ten EP 828
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March 18, 2025

5 Techniques Strong Men Master for Healing That ‘Males’ Avoid – Equipping Men in Ten EP 828

Are you ready to heal and step into victory? Becoming your best version takes more than just willpower—it requires the right tools and actionable steps. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos unpacks five transformative steps to go from being broken to mended. With deep biblical wisdom and practical advice, this episode offers a roadmap you need to rise up and become the man you were meant to be. This episode is sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness a...
Tactical Listening: Listen Better Than Other Dads (5 Ways) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 825
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March 11, 2025

Tactical Listening: Listen Better Than Other Dads (5 Ways) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 825

Men, are you genuinely listening to those around you, or are you simply waiting for your turn to talk? Becoming the best version of yourself in Christ includes learning to be the best listener, so you can truly support and minister to your loved ones through every season of life. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos reveals the 5 secrets every man should know to master the art of listening. Whether you're struggling to connect with your spouse, children, or friends, these...
5 Must-Know Tactics to Launch a Thriving Men’s Ministry – Equipping Men in Ten EP 810
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Feb. 4, 2025

5 Must-Know Tactics to Launch a Thriving Men’s Ministry – Equipping Men in Ten EP 810

Ever wonder why so many men’s ministries are failing to ignite change? Could it be that we’re missing the mark by not truly understanding the needs of the men we serve? In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos discusses ways to enhance your ministry's impact. He gives real-life examples that can spark genuine change. Don’t miss these practical tips to level up your ministry! Check out the Trailer for The Unbreakable Boy movie: https://tinyurl.com/unbreakable115 This episode ...
9 POWERFUL Ways Christian Men Can Level Up Their Life in 2025 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 804
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Jan. 21, 2025

9 POWERFUL Ways Christian Men Can Level Up Their Life in 2025 – Equipping Men in Ten EP 804

The world tells you to level up by chasing power, status, and self-interest. But that’s not the path the Bible lays out. If you want to become the best version of yourself, there are some core values that will get you there—not the empty hustle the world promotes. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos lays down the blueprint for leveling up your life—from a Division 2 mindset to a Division 1 way of living. Jim breaks down nine critical principles and weaves in biblical wis...