I made a HUGE mistake...or did I?
When I was a selfish little boy in a man's body, I thought my marriage to Shanna was a mistake. She didn't cook.
She didn't meet my every desire. She stopped me from doing whatever I wanted when I wanted it. She wanted me to change parts of me that I had grown pretty comfortable with. I felt trapped. UNTIL God woke me up with a simple message: "You need to OUT-love and OUT-serve your wife." The day I committed to do that was the day I became a man. And when I chose to serve her and accept her without requiring reciprocation, something amazing happened: she reciprocated. The woman that I had hardened with my selfishness became soft again. Suddenly our marriage became about what God always intended it to be: joyful service to each other. But it never would have happened if I hadn't of taken that first step. Men, choose to out-love and out-serve your wife. What happens next might surprise you.
Comment 'GUARDRAILS' for the new book on marriage that I wrote with my bride: 'Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage!