Consider THIS before texting a female coworker. Especially if you are in a position of power at work! Comment 'GUARDRAILS' for my ten marriage rules. Comment 'HOPE1' for the full conversation with Rick Reynolds, the founder of Affair Recovery. Infidelity doesn't start with big, dramatic moves. It starts with a text thread with a coworker or woman you know casually that starts to become a little too flirtatious. Beware texting who aren't your wife!