'If He Wanted To, He Would" IS A LIE! Don't expect MIND READING from your SPOUSE!

Ladies, "If he wanted to, he would" is a LIE. He sees the world differently from you. He may not naturally value the things you do, but he loves you and wants to please you - and you'll have a much better chance of getting what you want if you TELL HIM how to win with you, without expecting mind reading. Men, the same goes for you. If you aren't getting what you want from your wife, don't chalk it up to a lack of willingness or care. Assume the best intent, and TELL HER WHAT YOU NEED. Comment '997' to get more pro tips from Michelle at Hey Beginner Wife!