Joe Rigney is assistant professor of theology and literature at Bethlehem College & Seminary in Minneapolis, Minnesota. He is also a pastor at Cities Church in St. Paul and the author of: 5 Books including our book for today— More Than a Battle: How to Experience Victory, Freedom, and Healing from Lust. He lives in Minneapolis with his wife and three sons.
https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Battle-Experience-Victory/dp/1087700221
Boots on the Ground:
Women, have a conversation without being threatened about lust with your husband.
Men, get into a group of men who will push you because they want you to win.