Don't Do It! If you MUST text with a woman for the sake of work, keep it business ONLY. And to be even safer, I'd recommend you do what our friends at @affairrecovery do - add another coworker into the thread. This is part of Guardrail #2. For an in-depth explanation of all ten guardrails, comment 'GUARDRAILS' to pre-order my book coming out April 7th, 'Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage.'