NEW: Get our free download '7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late!'

Recent Videos from Men in the Arena

March 13, 2026

How AFFAIRS REALLY start!!

How AFFAIRS REALLY start!!

Affairs don't start in the bedroom. They start more subtly with a friendly DM to an ex. A joke that borders on flirty. A growing connection with a coworker. Becoming aware of how infidelity sneaks into a relationship is key to keeping your marriage healthy and growing. **Comment ‘GUARDRAILS’ to…

View more
March 13, 2026

What Does ‘Dominion' in Genesis 1:28 Actually Mean?

What Does ‘Dominion' in Genesis 1:28 Actually Mean?

How should men understand leadership, responsibility, the call to dominion, and who is guiding the next generation of men? Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Tristan Johnson, founder of Elite Men. Tristan shares his journey from chasing professional football dreams to launching a men’s ministry in 2007 focused on enriching…

View more
March 12, 2026

ONLINE infidelity??

ONLINE infidelity??

Just DON'T DO IT. Is it worth risking your marriage for? Online infidelity is listed in more than half of divorces. Don't roll the dice with your behavior online. Comment 'GUARDRAILS' for my new book 'Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage.'

View more
March 11, 2026

DON'T answer DMs from Women!!

DON'T answer DMs from Women!!

DO NOT respond to women! What starts out as innocent could easily head in the wrong direction. Be smart. Don't answer DMs you receive through social media platforms, from either women you know in real life or those you don't. Don't start personal threads with women. You're courting disaster. This…

View more
March 10, 2026

Guardrail #6: Never have a counseling or mentoring relationship with another woman

Guardrail #6: Never have a counseling or mentoring relationship with another woman

How do you maintain integrity when your ministry requires counseling people—often one-on-one? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with retired pastor but current ministry leader Wes Smith. From nearly 80 years of combined ministry experience, they discuss the practical guardrails they’ve put in place…

View more
March 10, 2026

Amazing zoom on the new iphone

Amazing zoom on the new iphone

WOW!

View more
March 10, 2026

I had a woman approach me...

I had a woman approach me...

Just don't do it! Comment 'GUARDRAILS' for the Iink to the book, 'Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage.'

View more
March 9, 2026

DON'T TEXT with other women! (Unless...)

DON'T TEXT with other women! (Unless...)

Don't Do It! If you MUST text with a woman for the sake of work, keep it business ONLY. And to be even safer, I'd recommend you do what our friends at @affairrecovery do - add another coworker into the thread. This is part of Guardrail #2. For an in-depth…

View more
March 6, 2026

Your SPOUSE is NOT the PROBLEM!

Your SPOUSE is NOT the PROBLEM!

Your wife/husband is NOT the big problem! Comment 'HOPE1' for the whole conversation.

View more
March 6, 2026

The Trap YOU Might Be Setting for Your Kids!

The Trap YOU Might Be Setting for Your Kids!

Jesus’ message is direct: stumbling blocks will arise. But woe to the man who is one. What if you are a stumbling block? In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos takes a hard look at Jesus’ warning in Luke 17:1–3 and Matthew 18 about “stumbling blocks.” The Greek word skandalon…

View more
March 6, 2026

Men, WHO is getting your EMOTIONAL ENERGY??

Men, WHO is getting your EMOTIONAL ENERGY??

Your emotional energy is limited. Who is getting it? Affairs don't start in the bedroom. They start more subtly with a friendly DM to an ex. A joke that borders on flirty. A growing connection with a coworker. Becoming aware of how infidelity sneaks into a relationship is key to…

View more
March 5, 2026

Married Men: DON'T TOUCH other women!

Married Men: DON'T TOUCH other women!

Side hugs only, guys! **Comment ‘GUARDRAILS’ for all 10!** Affairs don't start in the bedroom. They start more subtly with a friendly DM to an ex. A joke that borders on flirty. A growing connection with a coworker. Becoming aware of how infidelity sneaks into a relationship is key to…

View more
March 4, 2026

Choose your WIFE WISELY!

Choose your WIFE WISELY!

Choose wisely. Comment 'OPPOSITES' for the full conversation.

View more
March 3, 2026

Guardrail #4: Never engage in negative talk about your bride

Guardrail #4: Never engage in negative talk about your bride

How do you speak about your wife when she’s not in the room? Do you honor her — or subtly tear her down? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend Dean Yoder to discuss one of the silent killers of marriage: how…

View more
March 2, 2026

DON'T Compliment Women! Except for this way

DON'T Compliment Women! Except for this way

The only way to compliment a woman who is not your wife. Comment 'GUARDRAILS' for info on my book 'Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage.'

View more
March 2, 2026

When I realized my MARRIAGE was a MISTAKE!

When I realized my MARRIAGE was a MISTAKE!

I made a HUGE mistake...or did I? When I was a selfish little boy in a man's body, I thought my marriage to Shanna was a mistake. She didn't cook. She didn't meet my every desire. She stopped me from doing whatever I wanted when I wanted it. She wanted…

View more
Feb. 27, 2026

Forging STRONGER Men

Forging STRONGER Men

What’s forging your character right now? Are you avoiding pressure — or embracing it? This week, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Jonathan Stephenson from Warrior Forge Foundation to talk about how adversity shapes a man. Comfort never forged strength. Pressure does. Resistance does. This episode will challenge you to…

View more
Feb. 27, 2026

The ALPHA MALE mistake! Are you making it?

The ALPHA MALE mistake! Are you making it?

The ALPHA mistake! Are you making it?

View more
Feb. 26, 2026

Don't meet with WOMEN ALONE at WORK!

Don't meet with WOMEN ALONE at WORK!

Cautionary tale. You think you HAVE to work alone with women. But is that REALLY true? If working alone with a woman would KILL YOU, could you figure out a way to get the job done without that necessity? Bet you could. Or is it really just that the steps…

View more
Feb. 25, 2026

NEVER SAY THIS if you're a Husband

NEVER SAY THIS if you're a Husband

Brother, this is why you need them. You're not better than King David, Solomon, or Samson. If the most godly, wise, and strong men could fall, so can you. Build margin into your life to protect your marriage, BECAUSE you love your wife. Comment 'GUARDRAILS' to learn more about our…

View more
Feb. 25, 2026

Are Christian Parents Going TOO FAR with YOUTH SPORTS?

Are Christian Parents Going TOO FAR with YOUTH SPORTS?

Have youth sports become the center of your family? Are Sundays on the field replacing Sundays with Jesus? In this expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with Brian Smith and Ed Uszynski to expose the truth about today’s $40 billion youth sports machine...and how Christian parents are getting pulled into it…

View more
Feb. 24, 2026

The MIDDLE-CLASS Parent Mistake!

The MIDDLE-CLASS Parent Mistake!

I see it all the time!

View more
Feb. 24, 2026

Guardrail #3: Be the Thermostat in Your Marriage

Guardrail #3: Be the Thermostat in Your Marriage

Are you emotionally connected to your wife — or slowly drifting? Are you controlling the temperature of your marriage — or reacting to it? In this special series of 'Average Joe' conversations, Jim Ramos sits down with friend Chris Clay for an extremely practical conversation about building guardrails that protect…

View more
Feb. 23, 2026

Notable Arrival on Amazon?? Yeah!

Notable Arrival on Amazon?? Yeah!

Yeah! I'd be dancing like this if I weren't recovering from hip surgery...Comment 'GUARDRAILS' to get your copy. #guardrails #guardrailsbook #guardrailsjimramos

View more