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961
Jan. 28, 2026

Why Life's Ups and Downs Actually Speed Up Success - Podcast Highlight: Mark Batterson EP 961

This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 926, Preparing for Your Overnight Success: Cultivating Grit During Building Years w/ Mark Batterson. Check it out! Jim’s newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it’s available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming ye...
960
Jan. 27, 2026

4 Rules for Treating Kids How Jesus Did: The Blind Spot in How Adults View Children - Equipping Men in Ten EP 960

How should a man respond when a child walks into the room? Are you intentional—or distracted—in moments that could shape a life forever? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos challenges men to rethink how they engage with children—from toddlers to teenagers. Looking at how Jesus welcomed, valued, and blessed children, Jim unpacks why every interaction matters and how one moment of intentionality can create lifelong impact. You'll learn why children should be treated as whole people, ...
959
Jan. 23, 2026

Respected at Work but NOT at Home? Getting the Respect You Crave - Message at the MAG EP 959

Are you respected at work—but ignored at home? Do the people who know you best actually respect you? In this weeks message, Jim Ramos unpacks what Scripture says about being a respected man—not a compartmentalized one. Drawing from Job 29 and real-life experience, he challenges men to stop “waffling” between roles and start living as integrated, whole men whose lives are worth imitating. You'll see why respect must be earned, not demanded and how one practical step can identify where you’re “...
958
Jan. 21, 2026

What Happens When Work Stress Enters Your Home? - Question & Answer from The Locker Room w/ Jim Ramos EP 958

This is a question from the brotherhood in The Locker Room. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Aren...
957
Jan. 20, 2026

"My Take on Your Parenting" w/ Darby Ramos: Unfiltered Truth from Jim’s Middle Son - Son Interview #3 EP 957

Would you be nervous to sit down with your grown child and ask what you got right—and where you blew it as a dad? Jim Ramos has shared openly about what he believes he did wrong as a father… but this time, you get to hear it straight from the son who lived it. In this unique series, Jim is bringing in each of his three sons to analyze the good, bad and ugly of his parenting. Today, Jim sits down with his Middle son, Darby Ramos, for a candid, behind-the-scenes look at life growing up in the R...
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Jan. 16, 2026

REBOOT: (The Episode with the HUGE Twist!) The Godly Man’s NEXT STEP w/ Richmond Wandera

Men, this episode contains a big curveball and one of the most incredible God moments we've ever experienced in almost 1,000 episodes of the Men in the Arena podcast! Not a dry eye in the house! Don't miss this one. Can one simple “yes” really change the course of someone’s entire life? In this powerful episode, Jim Ramos sits down with Richmond, a former Compassion International sponsor child whose story of loss, hopelessness, and redemption will leave you stunned. As a young boy facing u...
955
Jan. 14, 2026

6 Minutes to Understand Biblical Health Principles - Podcast Highlight: Alex Morgan EP 955

This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 953, Why God's Design for Healing Starts With What You EAT w/ Alex Morgan. Check it out! Jim’s newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it’s available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goa...
Guest: Alex Morgan
954
Jan. 13, 2026

5 Surprising Lessons Pastors Should Learn from Normal Guys - Equipping Men in Ten EP 954

Are paid pastors actually more spiritually mature than the men in the pews? Why do so many leaders burn out while everyday laymen quietly endure? What if the men who don’t get paid for ministry are often the ones doing it best? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos looks back to his late 20s and early 30s in ministry and exposes a pattern he couldn’t ignore. This episode isn’t about tearing down pastors—it’s about learning from the faith, grit, and longevity of everyday men who quiet...
953
Jan. 9, 2026

Why God's Design for Healing Starts With What You EAT w/ Alex Morgan EP 953

What if the food you’re eating every day is either helping you heal—or slowly breaking you down? And what if God designed your body with the capacity to heal when you fuel it the right way? In this Expert Interview, Jim Ramos sits down with Alex Morgan, author of Designed to Heal, to unpack the powerful connection between food, lifestyle, and whole-person health. Alex shares the deeply personal story behind the book and how a return to organic, whole foods played a critical role. Together,...
Guest: Alex Morgan
952
Jan. 7, 2026

Why Some Marriages Succeed While Others Struggle - Podcast Highlight: Chris Herb EP 952

This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 943, Simple, Battle-Tested Marriage Habits that will Transform Your Relationship w/ Chris Herb. Check it out! Jim’s newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it’s available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Hel...
951
Jan. 6, 2026

How God Works Before You Even Know Him - Average Joe Conversation w/ Wade Sims EP 951

. This episode is sponsored by . Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you , you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed...
950
Jan. 2, 2026

REBOOT: Porn: Your Scientific Path to Freedom: How to Eradicate the 6 Roots that are Keeping You Stuck w/ Ted Shimer

Shimer teaches you the 6 scientific roots of your porn use, and gives you practical steps for eradicating them from your life for good. Ted Shimer has mentored men since 1991. He is a Dallas Seminary-trained Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional-Supervisor who helps people overcome the bondage of pornography in the context of making disciples. Ted is the Founder of The Freedom Fight, an online porn addiction recovery program, and the author of the book, The Freedom Fight, The New Drug and the Trut...
949
Dec. 30, 2025

REBOOT: Love Through the Decades: How to Make It Long-Term in Marriage w/ Kim Kimberling

What do you picture your marriage looking like in ten years? What about twenty? Will it be better than it is today? One thing is for sure: it will be different. The good news is there are some things you can start doing now and ensure your marriage makes it long-term and thrives. In this week's interview, author Dr. Kim Kimberling joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "Love, Intimacy, and Sex in the Second Half.” Dr. Kim shares his experience from his 54 years of marriage on what we can do to bu...
948
Dec. 26, 2025

REBOOT: King Me: Becoming the Hero in Your Story w/ Michael Thompson

Every man has a kingdom. Not every king rules well. If you ever feel powerless at work or home, wonder how to become the hero in your life story, or just want to make sure you're wielding the power God has given you well, this episode is for you. In this week's interview, author Michael Thompson joins Jim Ramos to discuss his book, "King Me: Loving and Leading in a Wounding World" and help you reclaim the heroism, power and authority God made you to wield. Here is the link to Michael's book: ht...
947
Dec. 23, 2025

Two Vital Questions that Godly Men Ask - Equipping Men in Ten EP 947

Who are you—really? Why did God put you on this earth? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos takes men to Moses at the burning bush to answer the two questions every man wrestles with: “Who am I?” and “Why am I here?” Using Scripture and real-world application, Jim introduces two practical frameworks every man can use to clarify his identity and purpose. This episode challenges men to stop drifting, stop guessing, and start walking confidently in the identity and mission God has alrea...
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Dec. 19, 2025

Real Faith or Just Habit? What Walking with God Actually Looks Like for Men - Message at the MAG EP 946

Are you settling for religion when God is calling you to a relationship? Do you just know about Jesus - or do you actually walk with Him? In this Message at the Mag, Jim Ramos helps men who are tired of shallow faith and spiritual passivity. This isn’t about church attendance, religious habits, or moral behavior; it’s about a real, daily, relationship with the one true God. You'll get insight into why Men are wired to walk with God side-by-side, not just talk about Him, and why your faith ...
945
Dec. 17, 2025

Guilt vs. Shame in Kids - Question & Answer from The Locker Room w/ Jim Ramos EP 945

Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in , our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life’s...
944
Dec. 16, 2025

10 Ways to Keep Christ the Center of Your Christmas - Equipping Men in Ten EP 944

Are you drifting through Christmas on autopilot? Is your family surrounded by lights, gifts, and noise—but missing the point? In this Equipping Men in 10 episode, Jim Ramos delivers 10 simple, actionable ways Christian men can keep Jesus at the center of Christmas. You'll get practical leadership you can implement immediately. You'll walk away with simple ways men can lead without adding stress or pressure and practical tools to refocus your home on Jesus amid the chaos. Check out the p...
943
Dec. 12, 2025

Simple, Battle-Tested Marriage Habits that will Transform Your Relationship w/ Chris Herb EP 943

Are you tired of feeling like your marriage is stuck in neutral? Do you ever wonder why some couples thrive while others just survive? In this Expert Interview, Jim Ramos sits down with Chris Herb to talk about what actually makes marriages succeed. Chris breaks down the simple, intentional habits that move a marriage from survival mode to steady and connected. You’ll learn how and why your wife is craving your leadership—and what initiating actually looks like. As well as the biggest mist...
Guest: Chris Herb
942
Dec. 10, 2025

What Was REALLY Happening in This Husband-Wife Conflict? - Podcast Highlight: Ron Deal EP 942

This is a Men in the Arena podcast highlight from EP 940, Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Marriage w/ Ron Deal: 4 Steps from Neuroscience to Break Your Toxic Patterns. Check it out! Jim’s newest book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage will be releasing in April 2026. Sign up to be notified when it’s available at https://meninthearena.org/guardrails. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the...
941
Dec. 9, 2025

The BIG Mistake Husbands Make Talking About Their Wives (Guardrail #4) - Message at the MAG EP 941

Are you struggling with how you view and speak about your spouse? Your attitudes and words impact the health of your marriage. In this weeks message from Jim Ramos, discover Guardrail #4 from his upcoming book, Guardrails: Ten Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage — Frame Your Bride Well. Drawing from biblical wisdom in Proverbs 31 and Ephesians 5, Jim highlights the power of positively framing your wife, seeing her as a reflection of yourself, and praising and supporting her in both private...
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Dec. 5, 2025

Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Marriage w/ Ron Deal: 4 Steps from Neuroscience to Break Your Toxic Patterns EP 940

Ever handled a situation with your wife so poorly that you wished you could rewind and do it all over again? What happens when your brain’s programming from childhood collide with real-life challenges in your marriage? In this week’s expert interview, Jim Ramos brings in expert Ron Deal for insight on how your brain’s wiring can lead to assumptions or reactions that sabotage communication. You'll get four practical steps to stop your toxic cycles in their tracks, rebuild trust, and learn h...
Guest: Ron Deal
939
Dec. 3, 2025

Change Your Marriage Mindset - Question & Answer from The Locker Room w/ Jim Ramos EP 939

Every man needs a locker room. Join a brotherhood of like-minded men in , our bi-monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room twice a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to...
938
Dec. 2, 2025

Leading Your Family on Empty: What Exhausted Family Men Need to Know - Average Joe Conversation w/ Nathan Lawler EP 938

How do you lead others when you feel completely drained yourself? What happens when the stress bubble, ministry pressure, and family life all collide—and your tank hits empty? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Pastor Jim Ramos sits down with Nathan Lawler, a mid-30s pastor, husband, and father. Together they discuss the question so many men are afraid to voice: “How can someone lead when they’re on empty?” You’ll hear practical wisdom about prioritizing God outside your ministry work, re...