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Aug. 7, 2026

6 Lies You Believe About Porn Addiction: How to Quit w/ Ted Shimer EP 1039

In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Ted Shimer, Founder of The Freedom Fight (thefreedomfight.org), an online porn addiction recovery program, and the author of the book, The Freedom Fight: The New Drug and the Truths that Set Us Free. Shimer teaches you the 6 scientific roots of your porn use and gives you practical steps for eradicating them from your life for good. Listen to the full episode here! Check out his book here! (https://tinyurl.com/freedom116) Want to protect your m...
1038
Aug. 5, 2026

Is She Your Soul Mate? 4 Questions Dating Men Should Ask - (RE)Quipping EP 1038

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #632 Single guys, how do you know the woman you’re with is THE ONE? In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you 4 questions you should ask yourself before you choose to marry the girl you are dating. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthearena.org/pages/7-marriage-guardrails Has Men in the Arena ...
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Aug. 4, 2026

Weeds: 3 Ancient Temptations Still Destroying Christian Men Today – Message at the MAG REBOOT EP 1037

What "weeds" do you find yourself continuously battling in your life? In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos dives into the critical steps of identifying and removing the “weeds” that stop us from living a life full of purpose and growth. Using wisdom from Galatians 5 and the Parable of the Sower in Matthew 13, he discusses how to aggressively root out sin and intentionally plant seeds that lead to a fruitful, God-honoring life. This is a reboot of a message from The MAG, The McMinnville...
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July 31, 2026

4 Things a Man Must Do the Moment His Wife Files for Divorce w/ Dale Brown EP 1036

Divorcing Christian? Chances are you—or someone you’re close to—has dealt with the pain of divorce. In today’s interview clip, Jim Ramos is joined by Dale Brown to walk you through 4 critical steps for healing from divorce. Here’s the link to Dale Brown’s book, ‘Daily Survival Guide for Divorced Men: Surviving & Thriving Beyond Your Divorce Days 1-91’ (https://tinyurl.com/divorce115) If you want the full interview, you can listen to it here! Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: ...
1035
July 29, 2026

Real Men Show Up: A Lesson from Jesus - (RE)quipping EP 1035

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #591 Christian man, are you TIRED? Are you stressed? We don't call that 20-year period where you're raising your family The Stress Bubble for nothing. In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos walks you through a time when Jesus was tired and what He did. He outlines three ways that you can show up like Jesus. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Ma...
1034
July 28, 2026

Christian Man: No Pain, No Gain - Message at the MAG Reboot EP 1034

In this 30-min message, Jim Ramos teaches you what "No Pain, No Gain" means for the Christian man. This is a reboot of a message from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://meninthearena.org/pages/7-marriage-guardrails Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear your impact story! https://meninthe...
1033
July 24, 2026

3 Tips Marriage Counselors Wish Every Husband Knew w/ Paul & Virginia Friesen EP 1033

Need a quick, boots-on-the-ground revamp of your marriage? In today's interview clip, Jim Ramos talks to Drs. Paul and Virginia Friesen. They give 3 practical tips to make sure you come out victorious in your marriage. Check out Paul and Virginia’s book, The Marriage App: Unlocking the Irony of Intimacy https://tinyurl.com/marriageapp115 If you want the full interview, you can listen to it here!
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July 22, 2026

Winning Your Young Adult Kids Back to Faith: How to Love Them Back to God - (RE)quipping EP 1032

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #656 Is your young adult child rebelling, or threatening to leave the faith altogether? Even kids raised in a solid Christian homes can end up doing stupid stuff that doesn't match Christian values. In this week's 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Jim Ramos gives you 7 steps you can take to love your child back into a relationship with God. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails ...
1031
July 21, 2026

Jonah in the Bible: Saying YES to God – Message at the MAG REBOOT 1031

Do you struggle to say YES to the things God places on your heart? t’s a struggle for many of us, including Jonah in the Bible. In this rebooted message, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches from the story of Jonah about the power of saying YES to God’s will and the dangers of saying NO. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. https://me...
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July 17, 2026

REBOOT: Forgiving the Unforgivable - 7 Steps to Overcome Your Bitterness and Find Freedom w/ Bruce Hebel EP 1030

We know that we're supposed to forgive, but what if someone has wronged you so deeply that you don't know where to start? In this week's interview, Dr. Bruce Hebel joined us to teach you how to forgive using his 7 Protocols of Forgiveness. You've heard it before: "Bitterness is the poison we drink hoping someone else dies." You've been drinking poison, brother, but this episode is your 7-step antidote. Check out https://tinyurl.com/forgiveness115 for more information! Want to protect yo...
1029
July 15, 2026

Is the Bible Sexist and Misogynistic? Responding to Accusations of Sexism in the Bible - (RE)quipping EP 1029

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #741 "Christians are sexist!” “The Bible is misogynistic!” We’ve all heard the accusations: many atheists and deconstructing Christians assert that the Bible endorses the oppression of women. In this week’s 10-minute (RE)quipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos responds to the accusation that the Bible is a work that subjugates women and endorses sexism, and teaches you how you might be reading certain passages...
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July 14, 2026

How Men Bond: The One Thing That Turns Men Into Brothers - Average Joe Conversation w/ Kenn Walsh EP 1028

Men are built to bond through challenge and shared purpose. In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with Kenn Walsh to talk about why the wilderness has become a place where men reconnect with who they are and discover God's calling on their lives. Kenn also shares practical steps to pursue God even when you aren't in the wilderness. Check out www.thewildernessexp.org for more information Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Mar...
1027
July 10, 2026

REBOOT: Your Brain is Sabotaging Your Marriage w/ Ron Deal - 4 Steps from Neuroscience to Break Your Toxic Pattern EP 1027

Ever handled a situation with your wife so poorly that you wished you could rewind and do it all over again? What happens when your brain’s programming from childhood collide with real-life challenges in your marriage? In this week’s expert interview, Jim Ramos brings in expert Ron Deal for insight on how your brain’s wiring can lead to assumptions or reactions that sabotage communication. You'll get four practical steps to stop your toxic cycles in their tracks, rebuild trust, and learn how to ...
1026
July 8, 2026

(RE)quipping: Television and the Christian Man - Who's the Tool, the TV or You? - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1026

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #648 How much TV do you watch each night? If you're a typical American, it might add up to more than you think. In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Jim Ramos takes a look at television's place in the life of a Christian man. Some of the ideas in this episode are related to our audio-only interviews with Matt Friedman (Kill the Flatscreen and Discipleship and Your Kids) about his book, Discipleship i...
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July 7, 2026

REBOOT: Life Verses’ Aren’t Enough - Why Every Christian Man Needs a DEATH Verse – Message at the MAG EP 1025

What’s the one verse that drives your life and shapes your faith journey? You need a verse to call our own that challenges you to live purposefully. In this week’s message, Pastor Jim Ramos introduces the idea of a 'death verse'—a scripture that will define you when you meet Jesus face to face. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too ...
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July 3, 2026

Rapid-Fire Tips for Girl-Dads: 15 Tools for Connecting With Your Daughter w/ Michelle Watson Canfield EP 1024

In this rapid-fire edit of our multiple interviews with Michelle Watson Canfield (“The Dad Whisperer”), she blasts through 15 practical ideas for connecting with your daughter taken from her book ‘Dad, Here’s What I Really Need from You: A Guide for Connecting with Your Daughter’s Heart.’ Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your life, small or large? We want to hear y...
1023
July 1, 2026

(RE)quipping: Mr. Know-It-All - 6 Secrets Your ‘Know-It-All’ Attitude Reveals About Your Heart – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1023

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #735 Are you a know-it-all? Do you have trouble taking criticism? Pretty sure you don’t need direction from others? Find yourself judging the way others do things? Having a TEACHABLE spirit is vital when you’re living out your best version of life in Christ. Even so, many of us walk around with a “know-it-all” attitude. In this week’s 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos teaches you 6 secrets a “kno...
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June 30, 2026

Do Christian Men Actually Need Church? You’re Defining it Wrong – Average Joe Conversation w/ Ben Sullivan EP 1022

Can you follow Jesus without being part of a local church? In this 'Average Joe' conversation, Jim Ramos sits down with longtime friend Ben Sullivan to tackle this tough topic head-on. By defining what the church truly is and digging into Scripture, they separate tradition from biblical truth and answer one of the most common questions men wrestle with today. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. You can start a mi...
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June 26, 2026

Deconstruction-Proof: The 7 Lies Pulling Christians Away From Faith (And How Spot Them) w/ Aaron Graham EP

What happens when culture starts preaching louder than the Bible? Are Christian men standing firm—or slowly drifting with the current? In this week's expert interview, Jim Ramos talks with pastor and author Aaron Graham to talk about the subtle lies pulling Christians away from biblical truth. Aaron explains how faith rarely collapses overnight, and how we can engage culture without compromising truth. Check out Aaron's new book, ‘Unshakable Faith’! (https://tinyurl.com/unshakable115) W...
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June 24, 2026

(RE)Quipping: What Christian Wives Want - 4 Things She Might Not Know She Needs From You – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1020

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #719 Congrats brother, you’ve married a strong Christian woman. But, what does she NEED from you? In her core, what does she need and want from you on a daily basis? In today’s 10-minute equipping episode, pastor Jim Ramos teaches you the 4 core desires of every woman and the practical ways you can meet those needs. Jim pulls from Michael Thompson’s (ep. 710) book KING ME(https://tinyurl.com/kingme115), taki...
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June 23, 2026

9 Mental Toughness Secrets No One Taught You (Part 2) – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1019

(Part 2) Are you mentally tough enough to finish what God has called you to do? When life gets hard, do you keep climbing or turn back? In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten Jim Ramos uses the metaphor of climbing a mountain to break down the path to mental toughness. Every climb has stages—the ascent, the challenges along the way, and the descent after the mission is complete. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. ...
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June 19, 2026

Every Man Needs a Hill to Die On: Why You Don't Have One – Message at the MAG EP 1018

Why do so many men feel lost, stuck, or anonymous? Why do so few have a cause worth fighting for? In this week’s message, Jim Ramos challenges men to find their hill to die on—a God-given purpose that is bigger than themselves. Before a man can discover his mission, he must first know who he is and whose he is in Christ. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in the Arena helped you make a change in your...
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June 17, 2026

(RE)Quipping: The Theology of Work - What the Bible Says About Your Career as a Christian Man - Equipping Men in Ten EP 1017

It’s (RE)quipping Wednesday! This is a reboot of a past Equipping Men in Ten episode, EP #710 You work hard, but are you working the right way? Will you be done working when you're retired? What place should work have in the life of a Christian man? In this week's 10-minute equipping episode, Pastor Jim Ramos walks you through a brief theology of work, teaching you what the Bible says about the work you're doing to provide for your family, and helps you identify ways you might be viewing work wr...
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June 16, 2026

9 Mental Toughness Secrets No One Taught You – Equipping Men in Ten EP 1016

Are you mentally tough enough to finish what God has called you to do? When life gets hard, do you keep climbing or turn back? In this weeks Equipping Men in Ten Jim Ramos uses the metaphor of climbing a mountain to break down the path to mental toughness. Every climb has stages—the ascent, the challenges along the way, and the descent after the mission is complete. Want to protect your marriage? Get our free ebook: 7 Guardrails to Protect Your Marriage Before It's Too Late. Has Men in ...